Tantric sex, what is it and how do you perform it? In the book Maithuna an explanation for beginners and advanced is written by Xander Pleysier (tantrist and tantric masseur). This intense and intimate way of experiencing sex comes from the Tantra, where tantra practitioners (tantrists or tantricas) prefer to speak about tantric love making (Maithuna). In tantric sex the woman is leading, she feels what is nice and she indicates the movements. The man prevents a premature ejaculation. In tantric sex you do not pay attention to time, therefore it can last for hours…, in contrary to the ’11 minutes’ sex.
Tantric sex for beginners
For beginners, Xander describes the preparations to create the right atmosphere. You will learn about the rituals, the postures (asanas), and techniques. Due to a lot of ‘practice’, both partners will grow towards a intuitive and intense form of tantric sex. For couples this is the most joyful shared hobby.